Since December 21, 2005, when the Minister of Education had announced that sex education will be teach in schools, there had been so many negative reactions towards it, until now the subject cannot be teach in schools due to restrictions by the public. The announcement keep coming up every time the country had faced with serious social issues like what we had right now, among them are incest, extramarital sex activities among the youngsters and the big one “babies abandoned” that had cause public fierce.
Some people say that this subject will create more social illness and the worst is they afraid the students might explore and try to experiment it. For me those feeling are nonsense. We had enough following the objection and still the problem arisen. Statistics by Islamic Youth Malaysian Association (ABIM) has shows that 50 percent out of 727 Universities students had involved in extramarital sex, some of them has doing it since secondary schools, and 80 percent out of them still have no idea on pregnancy control, while 34 percent has no conscious about HIV infections.
They do not have the conscious from the beginning as what they supposed to have. We denied teachers right to teach this subject and prefer parents to explain more on this at home, but do parents ready to discuss this topic with their children? do they have time for it? Thus, this is serious because they are our future citizens and we must stop doing “knee jerk” attitude towards these problems.
We might feel unease to see those statistics, it shows like there is no difference between our country which we claim as a Muslim country and the westerns, at least those countries have shows some improvement on this issue. According to Wikipedia, sex education used to describe about human sexual anatomy, sexual reproduction, sexual intercourse, reproductive health, emotional relations, reproductive rights and responsibilities, abstinence, contraception, and other aspects of human sexual behavior and family planning. I do not see anything wrong with those topics if we monitor it in positive angle.
However, before we apply the subject in our schools, it must be tightened strongly with Islamic values which imply more on building good moral values (Akhlak).Teachers involved must attend the subject’s workshops to make sure there is no misunderstanding on this subject. The title also can be change into something catchier and well mannered. Thus, I am not suggesting we copy hundred percent from the west. We must have our own mould and be proud of it. This issue is not just a Malay Muslim issue; in fact this is the national issue, nothing wrong to apply Islamic moral on it, because it is universal and everybody can accept good moral values.
Therefore, I hope the government really serious to apply this subject in schools, in order to that point; we must support this decision so that we can see some changes in the future life. Give it a try. We don’t want to see more innocent’s babies sacked out by irresponsible young parents, and more social illness within our beloved society. Thus, we must support any kind of suggestions that can possibly clear our country’s name and together we build a good moral for our future society.
Some people say that this subject will create more social illness and the worst is they afraid the students might explore and try to experiment it. For me those feeling are nonsense. We had enough following the objection and still the problem arisen. Statistics by Islamic Youth Malaysian Association (ABIM) has shows that 50 percent out of 727 Universities students had involved in extramarital sex, some of them has doing it since secondary schools, and 80 percent out of them still have no idea on pregnancy control, while 34 percent has no conscious about HIV infections.
They do not have the conscious from the beginning as what they supposed to have. We denied teachers right to teach this subject and prefer parents to explain more on this at home, but do parents ready to discuss this topic with their children? do they have time for it? Thus, this is serious because they are our future citizens and we must stop doing “knee jerk” attitude towards these problems.
We might feel unease to see those statistics, it shows like there is no difference between our country which we claim as a Muslim country and the westerns, at least those countries have shows some improvement on this issue. According to Wikipedia, sex education used to describe about human sexual anatomy, sexual reproduction, sexual intercourse, reproductive health, emotional relations, reproductive rights and responsibilities, abstinence, contraception, and other aspects of human sexual behavior and family planning. I do not see anything wrong with those topics if we monitor it in positive angle.
However, before we apply the subject in our schools, it must be tightened strongly with Islamic values which imply more on building good moral values (Akhlak).Teachers involved must attend the subject’s workshops to make sure there is no misunderstanding on this subject. The title also can be change into something catchier and well mannered. Thus, I am not suggesting we copy hundred percent from the west. We must have our own mould and be proud of it. This issue is not just a Malay Muslim issue; in fact this is the national issue, nothing wrong to apply Islamic moral on it, because it is universal and everybody can accept good moral values.
Therefore, I hope the government really serious to apply this subject in schools, in order to that point; we must support this decision so that we can see some changes in the future life. Give it a try. We don’t want to see more innocent’s babies sacked out by irresponsible young parents, and more social illness within our beloved society. Thus, we must support any kind of suggestions that can possibly clear our country’s name and together we build a good moral for our future society.
Salam Zul.
BalasPadamSetuju
seks diajar
melalui bimbingan
dari segi agama dan akhlak
oleh guru yang selayaknya .
Salam Zul ..
BalasPadamBerlajarlah apa jua perkara tak kisah.. cuma yang tak baik tu usahlah buat. Yang perlu pengetahuan itu ada dan disitu duduk kebijaksanaan kita.
Salam Tuan Tanah,
BalasPadamMemang Msia benar-benar memerlukan pendidikan seks diajar disekolah pada masa sekarang...mmg dah parah sekarang ni..
Entahlah kenapa manusia zaman ini mudah melakukan dosa dan mudah pula menutupi dosa.Dosa yang ada kian bertimbun dan tak terampun...sedihh...
BalasPadamA'h sudah Zul..entri omputih lak dah..terkehel kawan nak memahami ni..tapi tak per..tengok gambar saja boleh faham..
BalasPadam@relevan
BalasPadamKoi nak carik pembaca luar negeri
sekadar mencuba..aok boleh
translate rodong..hu hu
SALAM,
BalasPadamIBU BAPA TIDAK BOLEH BERSANDARKAN KEPADA INSTITUSI SEKOLAH SAHAJA BERHUBUNG DENGAN ISU PENDIDIKAN SEKS INI. KELUARGA PERLU MEMAINKAN PERANA PENTING (PENDIDIKAN TIDAK FORMAL) TERUTAMA DALAM SITUASI LUAR RUMAH YANG BEGITU MENCABAR
Salam En Zul,
BalasPadamBoleh juga diadakan satu kelas khas bimbingan pendidikan seks ni. Cikgu perempuan ajar murid perempuan dan cikgu lelaki ajar murid lelaki, jadi tak timbul gelak ketawa atau isu terlampau malu bagi anak2 muda ini. juga lebih terbuka jika mereka nak bertanya apa-apa yang tak difahami oleh mereka. Sweetie setuju dengan pendapat Zul dalm N3 ni.
salam zulk..makcik bersetuju dgn pandangan Cik Linda..pendidikan seks wajib diajar seiringan dgn pendidikan agama dan ahklak. gurunya metsilah yg betul2 layak agar semuanya menepati apa kehendak sekarang.
BalasPadamkadangkala.. sudah sangatkah nak berbalik pada asasnya?
BalasPadambila masing2 lebih suka menuding dari dari memikul tanggungjawab yang sepatutnya...
salam..
BalasPadamnice entri
byk ilmu yg ley dpt
lalu timbul kesedaran..
salam
BalasPadambab ni sebenarnya smua pihak harus memainkan peranan masing2
jangan hanya meletakkan harapan pada 'seorang' sahaja
salam zul..
BalasPadamrasanya berbagai pandangan perlu juga diambil kira tentang keberkesanannya dlm menangani masalah yg sedia ada..termasuk dari segi kos percetakan dan masa pembelajaran...good entry.
salam
BalasPadamsegalanya perlu kembali kepada agama
bila agama melarang pergaulan bebas, berdua-duaan, bersekedudukan
tujuannya adalah untuk mengelakkan pembuangan dan pembunuhan bayi
kerana di situlah akibat terakhirnya
jadi, adalah lebih baik ditambahkan masa untuk mata pelajaran agama
kerana agama telah merangkumi segala peraturan untuk hidup dengan aman di dunia ini
[telah tersedia pelajaran pendidikan sek dalam Islam]
Salam....
BalasPadamWahh, bahasa omputih la plak.bagus2, cari trafik dr luar.
Masalah moral semakin kronik skrg ni....
Takut utk hadapi kenyataan di hari depan, terutamanya bila memikirkan masa depan anak2 bila kita sudah tiada.....
nafsu..
BalasPadammungkin pendidikan agama paling sesuai
bukan mungkin lagi tpi mmg perlu
kena bermula dari ibu bapa yg berilmu dan para guru yg tinggi pengetahuan..
BalasPadamsupaya objektif tercapai
golongan cikgu sekarNg menghadapi krisis, banyak sgt subjek baru yang wujud macam cendawan toboh lepas ujan..kalau tambah subjek seks..urm rum rum..mungkin boleh, tapi kena buang laa subjek2 lain..banyak wooo subjekkk
BalasPadamsalam..
BalasPadamurut dada saya tengok gambar pelajar perempuan merokok tu.. isk..
apapun.. kita cuba tunggu dan lihat sejauh mana keberkesanan pendidikan ***(malu nak sebut..hehhe)
di sekolah nanti..
salam
BalasPadamselepas segala usaha yang dikatakan telah dilaksanakan untuk mencegah isu sosial ni, mungkin juga boleh dilaksanakan ikut saluran dan medium yang betul
setuju dgn luahfikiran..
BalasPadamsemua pihak perlu memainkan peranan.. pembelajaran tersebut bukan sahaja boleh diterima dari sekolah atau secara formal.. ibubapa perlu ambil kesah..
mungkin pendidikan seks boleh mengelakkan kes termengandung atau buang bayi, tetapi adakah boleh mengatasi gejala sosial? adakah remaja tahu kaedah selamat, makin menjadi-jadi masalah sosial?
kembali kepada tiang agama.. itu yg utama :)
hanya pendapat :)
Assalamualaikum,
BalasPadamSex Education, macam tak kena aja tajuknya...tapi tak taulah pulak macam mana sukatan pelajarannya, yang penting wajib disertakan dengan didikan agama yang mantap, dan gurunya mestilah yang betul2 berkelayakan, Bimbang lain yang dikehendaki lain plak yang jadi..
belajo ilmu fekah je cukup le kot, sema ada dalam tu
BalasPadamMak ayah pesan la kat anak-anak supaya mereka tidak bergaul bebas lelaki dan perempuan. Ini la pendidikan seks sebenar. Tidak boleh mengharapkan pihak sekolah lagi kerana sekolah sekarang tidak sama macam sekolah 20 tahun lepas.
BalasPadamSekolah sekarang bertolak ansur dengan dakyah pergaulan bebas dalam aktiviti ko-ko seperti TV3 SCHOOL ATTACK dan sebagainya.
isk2.. makin menjadi2.. ilmu apa lagi yang nak diprakttikan.... ???
BalasPadamSalam sdra..
BalasPadamMoga sdra sihat hendaknya..
Yang ada ilmu, insya Allah ilmu itu akan menjaganya dari melakukan maksiat...
bg saya,ajaran agama paling penting dan paling asas...smua agama melarang melakukan kejahatan..tetapi jika manusia lupa tentang agama dan nafsu telah menguasai diri,perkara2 yg xelok akan terjadi....
BalasPadamya allah sampai macam tue sekali betul tue angah sokong bagi
BalasPadamboleh la mula ajar dah. tapi jgn bagi cikgu yang lemah lembut dahla ajar.. nanti dia skip sebab malu nak sebut this and that. cikgu yang tegas perlu untuk subjek nie.
BalasPadam@Anwar Osman
BalasPadamsetuju..
cadangan yang baik!!
aku tak rasa sex education boleh selesai masalah. Cara yg terbaik kenalkan anak2 ni Allah dan ajarkan hukum hakam sex dari sudut islam
BalasPadamSaya terus terang bimbang kerana sebagai ibubapa muda memang perlu pendoman. Pendidikan seks pun tidak pernah bincang secara terbuka dengan ibubapa ketika remaja. Cuma amaran dari orang tua supaya belajar bersungguh-sungguh dan mencari pasangan selepas tamat pengajian tapi bagaimana saya dapat mengelak dari aktiviti kurang sehat seperti yang berlaku remaja zaman sekarang? Walhal saya mempunyai pilihan?
BalasPadam